The Non-Existence of Public Changing Tables

NEWSFLASH: Humans do not come out of the womb with the ability to use a toilet. Said humans must be changed each and every time they pee or poo. Oh, this isn’t news to you? I just wanted to make certain we are all on the same page because it seems as though many businesses…

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Things NOT to Say to a Parent of a Preemie

This is a post that I’ve been wanting to write for a long time, it was actually one of the main reasons I wanted to start a blog. However, I always felt like I was too close and it was too personal; I feared I would be writing a mainly hate-fueled post, rather than sharing…

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On Baby Turning One

My sweet little girl turns 1, one week from today. ONE! How is this possible?  It feels like I just found out I was pregnant.  The feelings are all too real – there I am standing in the bathroom wondering if what I’m seeing is real.  Am I really pregnant? I feel like I’m going…

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I Had a Baby, I’m Not Dead

So you had a baby, you’re a new parent and…everything that you were before is no longer, right? Wrong. I’m not sure where this idea came from that once you have a baby you are a different person; a person that no longer has the desire to have a social life. However, I’m here to…

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Where Did my “Good Baby” Go?

“What a good baby!” If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard that, while we are out in public, I would be rich…literally.  I always looked at these exclaiming strangers like they had three heads.  “She’s just sleeping…” I would think innocently in my head. I would smile and nod politely but I…

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4 Things I Didn’t Understand Until I Had a Baby

 Sleep really isn’t that important.  I used to require think I needed 10+ hours of sleep per night. That mindset was significantly altered during pregnancy. I had severe insomnia and would get 3 hours of sleep each night…if I was lucky. I always joked that my body was probably just preparing me for late nights with…

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Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow

I was warned cautioned a couple times when I was pregnant that, although I was experiencing a period of very lovely hair, I would probably lose some hair post-partum.  I brushed it off as an old wives tale and didn’t really think too much about it.  Even after giving birth, I wasn’t experiencing any out…

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Dear Love: Mommy’s Scared Too

This past week Arabella had her four month check-up, complete with three shots. At her two month appointment, I was pleasantly surprised at how few tears were shed after she received her vaccinations. However, fast forward a couple months and she was like a different baby, I didn’t think the screams and tears were ever…

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NOT My Breast Friend

Maybe it’s just because I’m a new mom, but the pressure to breast feed seems to be at an all-time high.  I always knew I wanted to at least try breast feeding but nothing could have prepared me for how every single nurse, doctor, friend, stranger, colleague, article, etc was going to INSIST that I…

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Reality Check

Rewind two days, it’s 4 am and baby girl has woken up for a feeding.  During these hours, my husband and I patter around the house, one making a bottle and one changing the babe; we hardly speak two words to eachother, as we’re both too exhausted.  Generally, it’s a cordial “I’ll start warming the…

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