Stop Comparing Your Life to Others

One of the many lessons I learned from becoming a mother to Arabella is that I should stop comparing my life to others. The more I stop letting the lives of others dictate my life, the more rich it becomes.  Preemie, or otherwise, babies develop at their own rate. So your brothers friends cousin had…

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Becoming a Mombie

I haven’t written a blog post in nearly 5 months. FIVE.FLIPPING.MONTHS. That’s nearly half my daughters life.  Being a mom/dad/parent is tough work.  I am completely maxed out right now.  Between working outside the home, cooking, cleaning, making sure I spend enough QUALITY time with my family, and trying to hold onto my last bit…

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Watching Baby Grow: Bittersweet

This past weekend, I met my cousins 3 week old baby.  My, oh my, is she adorable…and TINY!  I guess I didn’t realize how much Arabella has grown until I saw this little 8.5 lb baby.  I held and stared at her, in awe.  For the life of me I couldn’t remember Arabella ever being…

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Things That Will Never Be The Same After Pregnancy

This past weekend was nothing short of an eye opener on how much things have changed since I had Arabella (tomorrow she will be six months old!) It started with me realizing I no longer can sleep on wood floors and ended with me having a near nervous breakdown trying on clothes for work. When…

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I Had a Baby, I’m Not Dead

So you had a baby, you’re a new parent and…everything that you were before is no longer, right? Wrong. I’m not sure where this idea came from that once you have a baby you are a different person; a person that no longer has the desire to have a social life. However, I’m here to…

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I Resolve to Make Resolutions for the New Year

With each New Year, you have those who make Resolutions and those who don’t. Now for all you Nay-Sayers, who proclaim you don’t need a “holiday, new year/day, etc” to make changes in your life… Good.For.You. I, however, need to set myself schedules and deadlines.  I need to keep myself on track.  So if waiting…

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